Nah, you're not being too Orthodox in the least. You're absolutely right. In Judea, there was always an uprising. I think of Masada being the most popular one. However, there were alot more. Many people consider the early Christian upswell as a sort of revolution. I tend to agree, after all the empire converted to a religion that was despised just a few hundred years before.
The thing that makes me say Armenia was under Roman power is the installation of a pro-roman king, chosen by Rome. Rome did this often to control areas too large or too troublesome for the legions. Parthia, Pontus, parts of Germany, and Briton at one time or another was also put into this policy.
After some research, I think I might retract the Mesopotamia aspect I stated above. I looked up old trading routes in Roman-times Iraq, Iran, and Judea and have come to a conclusion. Rome controlled Judea as best they could and they knew they could not control Mesopotamia to the extent they did say..Gaul or Greece or others. There were simply too many ANCIENT trade routes that literally everyone knew. They could come and go as they pleased and virtually disappear in the Arabian "wilderness". These people have become masters of traveling through desert for weeks at a time. They knew oasis locations, knew how to travel, and the best routes to take. There was simply too much "dead" area to cover for the romans.
I think they had the Jews simply because the Hebrews considered it the Promised Land and did not want to abandon it. In the end, their own love for their country made them a conquered people.
That's my story and I'm sticking to it
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