Kosmo,
i am a man from Turkey, My name is Tolga
i cant agree with ur Laz friends opinion about what turkish people in genereal think of them. Laz people are very clever people especialy they have natural ability for engineering and structural field. you can see them in many sector relating to these fields. They are well respected for their success. May be he or she was effected by some radical nationalist.
i dont understand what he or you meant by "saving their greek charecter". Greek culture and Turkish culture are very similar to each other. Traditions, clothes, dances, dishes.
Plus there wasnt a assimilation policy in historical records. May be we are people assimilated in the course of life without any interwentions. But the word "assimilation" doesnt explain much thing in Anatolia where is a crossroad of civilizations. if it would, we could easily find a solutions to our identity crisis in Anatolia.
i have many laz friend here i havent heard such things.